Bf/Gf (Page 41 of 48)

i think i can do that

Not for long, I bet, if those new pictures on Facebook say anything.

Welcome back to the boards. I missed 'ya.

Shameless flirt. XD
Hmm... I guess I must look more attractive without the specs then. I recently got contacts, haha.
Those aren't even the best photos I have of myself to be honest, hahah, j/k!

I think my facebook is facebook.com/jesstompkins

If you add me, just tell me who ya are. I think the only person I have from here as a friend is Aaron. (And I will try to stay active here, haha).

now thats a horrible way to look at it you need to have a more optimistic view about getting into a relationship

thats very true but it is nice to have some one

So much barbed wire around your heart, Croatian. What happened? Or is it that you don't think anything good could happen? Why?

Sometimes it's very much about meeting the right one. Or leaving the wrong ones out. If they all seem wrong to you, maybe you don't focus on the right people. If you look attentively, you'll find many who'll want to be with you, I'm sure.

When you know what you look for, it's just a matter of time and of meeting enough people before you can eventually spot one who'd fit your requirements.

What kinds of looks catch your attention? And besides looks, what is it you find attractive in a person? If you have a clear idea of that, you'll waste much less time.

And if you don't know what you want yet, you need to "experiment" so you'll find out. People are not all out to hurt you. Try and give yourself more of a chance.

That sounded quite strong to me too, lol. Reason for my way of putting things.

That's quite understandable. I don't think it's hard to find, and attracting them isn't out of your reach either.

Just a question of being open, fun and easy. Don't be too pushy with the flirting, and don't swear. It shouldn't be too long before one of them finds interest in you. When one girl hits your eye, shower your attention on her in particular. Sometimes it might be as simple as making her laugh.

Make her feel you respect her. Be attentive to whatever she says, especially if it's not important. Can work wonders.

You are saying thing of which I am aware of. Its not about action or approach. Its about my nerveous nature and fear of rejection.

Nice guy? No offense buddy, but we just met. But... I like to think I am a nice guy...

lol. Thanks, I'm just a girl talking about girls from her own point of view.

Sorry to bring stuff you already knew. I hope this is gonna help you more, it's at least my intention.

I can understand how rejection can appear worse than doing nothing. But if you never try, you won't gain the confidence to actually succeed with it.

If flirting is the same as for sales, on 10 people you meet, you'll get 1 "yes". So if you want to be able to choose you need to meet that many 10's of people, talk to them, try your chances with them. And not get put down by the 90% of "no" you'll get, as it's not about you, it's just the "law of averages".

Miba isn't "buddy", lol. Girl too there.

Try listening more and chatting less. Might need some practice but it can be fun as it lets you learn about people's feelings and lives.

I don't mean to sound like I know it all, it's just something I try to do, and when I can control myself with it, people seem to come towards me more, to talk. People in general love to talk about themselves, if you encourage them to do that, they'll like you, lol.

Well, thank you for spending time to tell me those things.

I think your advice is good anyway.