Bf/Gf (Page 37 of 48)

i once did (she was a kriffing di'kut) but as for normal it all depends on how crazy your ex is. My buir once had one acuse him and i of beating her(which we didnt). But one i had said i was just using her to get to her friend(which i wasnt). So the level of crazy really decides.

Kick him in the grill, brings closure to any relationship.

Well there's always that, I was trying to go for the more peaceful approach.

Or, and this has been a sucker for me, just cry in front of your other guy friends. 9 times out of 10 they'll all saddle up and whoop his *** without so much as waiting for an explanation. This, however, will definitely count as a "super conflict".

At least your ex isn't some bipolar wiccan trying to kill the new guy that you're interested in with magick, just for having an interest. That's what happened with my partner's ex-girlfriend. She wouldn't leave him alone after he asked for a break, and then a few months later (when he met me and we started dating) she went bonkers and was trying to use "spells" to either kill me or ruin his relationship with me, as well as emotionally blackmail my partner by harassing him and then went so far as to attempt suicide a second time (first time was after he asked for a break). Serious business. Luckily, she got over it after a few months and has left us alone (this happened about 3.5 years ago).

I'd say just ignore him, or be as contrite as possible when you speak to him. If you're really indifferent, then yes it will frustrate him; but if you maintain vigilance, he'll likely get tired eventually. At least, I hope so...I've never had any ex-boyfriends trying to repossess me (all I have are redophile friends that want to duel my partner for my hand xD) so I can't say that my advice has worked for me, personally, but it's worked relatively well for a few friends of mine in a similar situation. Best of luck on getting rid of the pest. Just remember that you've always got your vode to back you up. :3

'Cause there'd be no investigation with a murder...

i've six count it 6 gfs and all of themdumped for some other hot guy so i went crazy and now everyone hates me

Let me get this straight.  You said you were 13 and you have had 6 girlfriends?  Personaly when I see all these middle school kids walking around town holding hands I laugh. 

What, to you J, is the point of 'dating' at such a young age?  What do you look to get out of dating?

That's a very dangerous mentality to be living with.  Hold steadfast through this time in your life.  Don't ever think ou aren't loved and or needed by anyone.  It's my personal belief that no matter what's happening there is always someone who loves you.  I went through a really hard time in my life with a bunch of people close to me dying and holding onto that thought got me through it.  It was nothing like losing a sister but it was tough.  So just keep your head high no matter what happens.

Nope, no boyfriend. Single, again.

I say never give up. You never know what you may find out there in life, and  oddly enough you and I may find ourselves happy.

I must say that it was hard on the cruise i just got back from ( my first real vacation in  years). There was surprising amount of couples and that made me long for that sort. ( Its funny because I dont really feel comfortable saying again because I don't know if I ever had a real normalish relationship with my ex.) I really think i just want to be comfortable with some one, and not have to make excuses and fear emotions and what the other might say.

Heres to being ourselves!

Ps. The ex hasnt spoken a word since last tuesday! Thats great because i was so so so angry about him that i was losing my ability to function. And he was still giving me mixed signals. Good riddance!

I hope i enjoy my freedom too.

And Yes, the second quote is totally from HK. He has some of the most fun lines in my opinion.