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Ale'ika Skirta wrote:

all i can say is woot woot
i have a girlfriend now... saddly she is on the other side of the state from me

I'm happy for you, although having to travel some is unhappy. Mines about an hour away from me and sometimes the drive does make it harder on us. Yes it is happy and great thing. After prior experences with individuals I wouldn't stay with someone just because I felt like it. Its funny because were are so very much alike, and when we're together its a blast, and comfortable too. I don't know how to explain how it can be all these good things, but still take effort and work.

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Si Titran wrote:
Ale'ika Skirta wrote:

all i can say is woot woot
i have a girlfriend now... saddly she is on the other side of the state from me

I'm happy for you, although having to travel some is unhappy. Mines about an hour away from me and sometimes the drive does make it harder on us. Yes it is happy and great thing. After prior experences with individuals I wouldn't stay with someone just because I felt like it. Its funny because were are so very much alike, and when we're together its a blast, and comfortable too. I don't know how to explain how it can be all these good things, but still take effort and work.

well modern technology makes things easier, she's not allowed to make or receive long distance calls (even though its free nights and weekends and we have the same provider so its free anyway) so we talk over the voice aspect of and instant messenger program... the only downside to it is she is 17 and im 19 and she wants to come and visit me this summer. The age difference is within the legal limits, but i like to play things safe so i convinced her to wait till she graduates...

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I'm really annoyed with my brother now. HE CANT COME DOWN FOR MY 12TH BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!! sad neutral

So, I'm not in a good mood.

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679 Reply by Miba (edited by Miba Monday, March 17, 2008 3:26 pm)

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I'm really annoyed with my brother now. HE CANT COME DOWN FOR MY 12TH BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!! sad neutral

So, I'm not in a good mood.

...what does that have to do with having a bf or gf?


And I've had a long distance relationship once. It was hard. And sucky. My fiancee lives just across town from me right now, and, wow. The difference between having someone in the same town and having someone who lives so far away is amazing. I'm not entirely sure how I managed to stand having my old bf be so far away.

Not saying it can't work out for everyone. Just that I personally didn't like it and looking back on it I wonder how I did it. And he was quite a bit farther away than just across the state or in the next town over or even in the next state over. He was on the other side of the country.

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Miba wrote:

And I've had a long distance relationship once. It was hard. And sucky. My fiancee lives just across town from me right now, and, wow. The difference between having someone in the same town and having someone who lives so far away is amazing. I'm not entirely sure how I managed to stand having my old bf be so far away.

Not saying it can't work out for everyone. Just that I personally didn't like it and looking back on it I wonder how I did it. And he was quite a bit farther away than just across the state or in the next town over or even in the next state over. He was on the other side of the country.

ive done across the country before, and in the same town the only difference i can see is less physical touching, which i actually prefer because ive had a relations destroy itself because of touching, mainly because the girl wanted me to do more than i wanted so she went somewhere else to get it

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Well, I'm sorta cuddly, and I like to actually do things with people. Like with my fiancee now we can just go places, or play video games together, or watch movies together. Which is very nice.

But being TOO physical is bad. You need a good friendship too. And I just want to say, also, that in a way I'm proud of you for not going farther than you wanted to. Never do anything unless you feel comfortable with it and really want to. Especially with a girl who's just going to leave for someone else when you don't do it. That's just not right. I wish you luck on finding someone good. smile Unless you already have someone, I haven't been keeping up with things a whole lot.

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Its funny because I don't think of myself as a cuddly person at all. I never was untill this BF, as he is what I think is perfect to cuddle with. Just thinking about it is making me miss him. sad.

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I get called cuddly all the time which is kinda creepy since its men and women who say it

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Miba wrote:
Masterchief wrote:

I'm really annoyed with my brother now. HE CANT COME DOWN FOR MY 12TH BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!! sad neutral

So, I'm not in a good mood.

...what does that have to do with having a bf or gf?


And I've had a long distance relationship once. It was hard. And sucky. My fiancee lives just across town from me right now, and, wow. The difference between having someone in the same town and having someone who lives so far away is amazing. I'm not entirely sure how I managed to stand having my old bf be so far away.

Not saying it can't work out for everyone. Just that I personally didn't like it and looking back on it I wonder how I did it. And he was quite a bit farther away than just across the state or in the next town over or even in the next state over. He was on the other side of the country.

Maybe...because he thinks that...his brother is his gf!? (sarcasm) Now everybody is telling the same story about how far are their gf/bf away.

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My former gf lives in Texas. we still talk over IM if were both on.

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lol AA, my former bf lives in Texas too, small world... tongue

Anyhow, not much going on here, still going to the school dance with that one guy, but I think it's more of a just friends thing.  One of my "friends" keeps flirting majorly with him, so I'm hoping we just make it to the dance together.  Still looking, but I'm not to concerned about it, the right guy will come at the right time smile

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i'm at the beach & I miss my girlfriend... I wish she were here!!!  ilu Natalie!

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i hate long distance relationships my gf lives an hour and a half away from me and the drive is so frustrating! you got toll charges and heavy traffic leaving and entering the city center, but when i get there we have the best time ever. the travelling makes you realise that more, does it not? as the saying goes, good things come to those who wait big_smile

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I hear you there Nigzy. Its also a MAJOR pain when you're both working all the time. (My bfs now working 7 days sad ) and I just got a real job too.

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Got my GF living with me and we are having our 1st baby n the next coupla weeks.

She understands well tries too understand my addiction and she collects Rubber ducks..

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691 Reply by Ale'ika Skirta (edited by Ale'ika Skirta Friday, March 21, 2008 5:39 pm)

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i know a lot of girls who collect rubber ducks

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Well then she at least understands your love of collecting. You may not agree on what to collect, but accept that you do. Conrgadulations (I know I just spelled that wrong) on your baby!

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Karnorjax1138 wrote:

Got my GF living with me and we are having our 1st baby n the next coupla weeks.

Crongradulations!

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Congratulations......unless you meant to do that Draco tongue

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Congatulations, Karnorjax 1138! I hope you cope well with him/her.

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696 Reply by Ale'ika Skirta (edited by Ale'ika Skirta Saturday, March 29, 2008 8:39 am)

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wow so ive realized that my girlfriend is kinda awesome, and to begin with my current relationship i was just in it for experience but oddly enough i want this relationship to last long enough for the two of us to actually meet, she wants to come visit this summer, but i told her to wait until she is 18 which she turns at the end of the summer, mainly because i turned 19 the begining of this year and i dont want to get into any legal trouble even though the age of consent is 16 in this state, but yeah. Ive been dating this girl for a month so is it right that i want to get a solid steady relationship with a girl ive never met in person but who i met through a friend? (the friend actually knows her in real life)

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Just be careful. Don't invest too much of yourself into this just yet. People can be very different in RL. Course, if she is a friend of a friend I guess your friend can tell you if she's about the same. Like me, for example. When I'm OL I speak quite differently than in RL. In RL I speak very poorly. Most people can't even understand what I'm trying to say and I have to repeat myself over and over, using fewer words each time.

Anyway, I hope it does work out, just don't plan your life around it or something. But I do agree, that it is a good way to get to know someone. Anyone can look pretty, but you can't have a relationship based on that alone. So, yes, OL is a good way to do it. I knew my fiancee at work, but it wasn't till we started talking OL that I agreed to go out with him. Cause it was OL that I got to know him.

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Just make sure it's not some sick prank. Like Alo Fett's Boba is dead post. Grr. If not, I'm happy 4 u. Btw, I don't have a gf. I've liked a girl 4 a while, but she's pretty involved with another guy. Oh well, I'll either get lucky or move on someday.

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699 Reply by Merciless Mandalore (edited by Merciless Mandalore Friday, April 4, 2008 12:36 pm)

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Thanks, terra. Good advice. And good luck with your relationship.  smile

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