Bf/Gf (Page 16 of 48)

Are you sure that you did not misinterperate her?

It is too young to be thinking about sex. Believe me you're much better of waiting for the right time and person.

"I know I'm gonna by lynched for this but here goes.  I think gf's are a complete waste of time and/or money.  I apologize to you people who think otherwise, but that's the way it seems to be for me.  There, I said it."

*Applauds* :D:D:D *Applauds some more*

I think it depends on where you are in life and what the other person is like.

A relationship goes both ways, people seem to forget that. I think one of the reasons me and my boyfriend have been together so long is that we try and treat each other how we want to be treated.

He wants to go hang with the boys,that's fine. Just don't get trashed and crash the car. Same goes for me. We do certain things together, but sometimes we don't.

I pay for things, he pays for things. Like I said if you find someone interesting, take your time and think about what your doing. I actually ended up with a BF when I wasn't looking for one, than when I was.

I only started dating at 17--- around April of my senior year of high school, and it was a guy my mom set me up with LOL (oh I KNOW someone's laughing at that).  She just wanted me to have a date for my senior prom.  I did have crushes in high school, but never dated anybody til then.  Didn't last long, but it was a memorable prom.

...then I got married at 20 (TOO young!!!).  I've been married for almost 7 years, though I can honestly say it's not the best.

You guys/girls here that are wishing to have a GF/BF--do heed the advice some have posted.  Wait until it's right for you, things will work out if they are meant to be, and focus on getting your life going and be independant before you go looking for another to share your life with.  And, it does help to be friends first.  Also, make sure you find someone you can talk to, have decent conversation with, or else you might find yourself rather lonely.

((I pretty much ignored ALL of that advice and am paying for it...))

Havent had one in a year. scary huh?

Heh, well, just remember... the people who are tied up in relationships are missing out on so much. I mean, some people NEED to be in a relationship just to feel happy. Be glad you don't have to rely on someone else for your own well-being.

It has been tough for me. Like I said earlier, I've only had three boyfriends and the longest relationship was only two months. It's very hard to make a relationship work when you're in your teens because so many people my age are just into simple "teenage lust." Well, I want to date for more than that. I want someone who truly cares about me, and shares my passions and dreams... I don't need some guy whose only interested in me because I look good in a swim suit and only cares about sticking their tongue down my throat... and them some.
I don't know if this is a touchy topic, but I made the decision a few years ago to remain abstinent until marriage. I was just wondering if anyone had the same view.

See, it's not really much of a religious thing for me... I mean, I believe in God, but I'm not hyper religous. It's just a personal choice for me. I want to be for my husband and only for my husband... I don't believe in divorce either, which is why I'm not going to rush into marriage to young. I don't care if I'm 30 and still not married. I'll be proud to be a virgin. It's the ultimate sacrifice for God and the ultimate gift to the person I will someday love.

I'm glad you are holding out too, it's comforting... It's very hard for people to take you seriously when you talk about abstinence in today's world.

...Hm, must be a Star Wars fan thing... I wonder why? LOL, just kidding...

I agree.  *Applauds crazily*.  Words to live by Manji.  Nice philosophical view Sev.