Re: Girl won't except the Boba lifestyle.

I second that about he cheating, NOT a good idea. Off hand I would say  there should be room for some kind of compromise here. If not, I wouldn't be too optimistic about this relationship. It could lead to a slippery slope where she would have you give up almost everything you ever loved. I hope things work out whatever you have to do.

A man's worst enemy can't wish on him what he can think up himself. Yiddish saying