Okay, I too am both a Marvel nerd, and a Fett geek, so i'm right down the middle. Fett is more ruthless, and cold, while Stark is a hero at heart. However, Stark's armouyr and weaponry is on par with, if not far better than Fett's. Fett couldnt whip off Stark's helmet, because it hass a special system to keep it on. The only way I could see Fett winning would be to do something to short out the armour's power systems, and shut down the auxilary power source as well. Fett, though, is more vulnerable, as his whole body is not coated in armour. Iron Man will attempt to keep Fett alive, and Fett would too, to an extent. I'd say that the ruthlessness and cunning are Fett's primary weapons against Iron Man, whose power comes from his technology.
I too think Tony Stark's fallen a bit in standards. I mean, i like the guy, and what he's trying to accomplish, I just dont like HOW he's going about doing that. Cool-wise, Boba's better right now. And probably always will be.
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