Bf/Gf (Page 39 of 48)

Crazy.
But thanks for getting my back T.

Then it won't take long before you start seeing the point of them >; )

But Greenie, you make us girls sound to be like a dog or animal. GF's (or BF's for that matter)  don't really work that way. At their best is some one to share things with and do things together. If the relationship is simply a chore... then thats not a healthy relationship and it needs to change one way or another. I'm sure it seems like I say this a lot but, don't rush things. Enjoy what you have now, and you can only do what is right and normal for you, not everyone else.

But eh, I'm a bit bittered out on the whole "love" "gf/bf" thing anyway. I guess thats a sign that im supposed to be alone.

Well its easier to not rush things at 13 then at 25. I'm tired of waiting for my life to start, you know.

When i meant a chore, i meant like druggery, hating to do it. All relationships take work, that I know. But there are still some like thoughts and feelings there that push us to keep working at it. When its to the point where those feelings aren't there and its just pluggin along... well then thats what i meant. I hope any of that made sense.

My husband was 30 when we got married. Sometimes it just takes a while. Don't try too hard to get everything now, or it'll be forced and eventually be bad. Things will work out alright eventually.

Hey bro, ya gotta chill. Believe it or not I wasn't always the gorgeous hunk of man you see today either. Glasses aren't necessarily a bad thing, and braces are something most kids gotta go through nowadays, but you'll be done with those in a couple years at the very most, right? That's when you'll wanna get going on the women anyway, right now is just the pre-game, you got time to prepare.

And don't beat yourself up so much, no one likes a guy who's too self-deprecating.

MC...you said you just turned 13.  Why do you even care?

As to your issues: contacts, so what,  altiods or atomicfireballs, being a nerd is fine, and washcloth.

*shrugs*  just be more self-confident.  it'll get you all sorts of places.

As for me...17 and single by choice, rock on!  Of course,  I had to dress like a gangsta, quit wearing makeup, chop all my hair off (growing it back out though), and turn down a few  offers along the way,  but its extreamly liberating.

So you wear glasses. A LOT of people wear glasses these days. Glasses can even be considered stylish. When I was 7 and it was first discovered my eyesight was crap and I needed glasses, I really didn't have many to choose from. Big and round where all that was availible, even for adults. These days there is a massive selection of sleek and small. And generally glasses need to be replaced every few years or so (especially if your me and needed a stronger pair every year for years), so its not like you need to worry about being stuck with an old style down the road. Pick out whatever looks good on you, and whatever style is popular and you'll do fine.

Braces, so what? So you have a metal mouth for a few years. Also in a few years you'll have a perfect smile. And so many people have braces these days, I can't see it being a big deal. And if girls laugh at you, so what? At your age, girls are just coming out of the "boys are icky!" phase anyways.

No one has perfect breath, NO ONE. If its really bad all the time (like right after you brush your teeth and your breath is still awful), then go see your doctor about it since it might be a mouth fungus. But I really doubt that you have a fungus. Just carry around a pack of gum or mints or whatever (which is what most people do anyways). Realistically, everyone has bad breath.

so you're a designated nerd. So what? I am. And you know what? Its a lot easier for guys to get away with being a nerd then a girl. I say, embrace your nerdyism. In my room I have a Pokemon poster, an Invader Zim poster, and a Dragonball Z poster all hanging on the walls, plus two Super Mario posters in my closet I don't have room on my walls for anymore. At 21. This is nerdism at its finest. And am I embaressed? Nah. Only one whos going to see my room is my mom and she doesn't care, so long as there aren't a ton of holes in my walls.

I'm assuming by "spots" you mean "zits". Well, if that doesn't define a teenager, I don't know what does. Everyone gets zits. And you can't tell me that the pretty people at school don't get them, because they do. You can get zits on your back too, you know. And they're easily managable, even more so since you can see them easily. Wash your face every day when you shower, and before bed, apply zit cream on them. Its something you gotta stick with, but hey, thats life. Zits are something everyone deals with. Even we adults still get zits. Its no big deal. Like I said, its something everyone deals with at one point.

Anyways you just turned 13. You're not going to meet your soulmate at 13. And no one is in a serious relationship at 13. Date for a few months at the most, get bored, and get someone else is how people generally roll at 13. Trust me, people don't even begin to date serious until towards the end of high school. And some people never date seriously. Don't worry about dating just yet. I bet you even thought girls=icky until fairly recently.

yeah it sounds bad and someone got hurt but we're all better for it

Yoink! yet another recipient of the BFFC Playa Award. Props dawg.

I'd take once or twice a week! That was the most i ever saw my Ex.

a very messy drama indeed but we'll be one month one thursday and were still going strong