Bf/Gf (Page 30 of 48)

No you dind't!  Would love to hear it   

and maybe script write ti...............;)

Yeah thanks terra.  The one teacher I work with just got married a few weeks ago and my one co-worker at the program (who just turned 21 this year mind you...) is engaged and getting married in July. Plus time is just flying by.

Congratulations, Miba!
We may not have been properly introduced, but you made me happy tonight!
Hope you're happy as hell!

Ah, I completely forgot. This is my new girlfriend, Anna Maria. How do you like her? Should I keep her or not?
Hah..

Hey, I'm not that bad! I was only kidding back there!
I like her a lot, all right, but it's been a mere days that we've been together and I cannot say I'm in love or something. She's nice, but I cannot have a decent conversation with her. I care about her, but our interests are completely different. I collect stuff, watch movies, play my guitar, read novels, english and american literature and a bunch of other things. She likes to go out with friends and listen to greek trash music.
We do not accord, and that's a sad thing. BUT, I'm not a lonely person. I cannot stand being alone, so I kinda need her. I like her a lot, and I try to compromise. I'm not a sexist! I love women! I'm just weird...
As for "the one", I'm sick and tired of waiting. I'm a very strange person, if I were to wait for an equally strange mate, I'd surely die of old age..
Oh, and I took the photo with my cellphone, but I forgot to rotate it when I uploaded it (90 degrees to the left), so that's why it seems a bit strange. Here's another;

shes a cutie, but if u have nothing in common its at best a house of cards. but if ur a serial dater...and u dont care to be alone, enjoy the ride. you only go around once.

If ur looking for a relationship w/ longevity obviously ur gonna have to find someone that like to talk lit, and culture etc. for the record i date alot, and the relationships where i cant relate to the girl/ woman, dont outlast the milk in my refrigerator.

one question i always ask early on is "do u know who boba fett is?"

Whoa, it's really getting hot in here!
Im no way a serial dater! More like the other way around..
I used to be a serious guy. I craved for commitment, but i had the wrong age..
I'm 21 years old and I've had more or less nearly 20 relationships. Some of them were serious, or they intended to, some of them were just conviviality, some were a complete waste of time.
Sad thing is I matured a lot earlier than I was supposed to, and could not find a like-minded girl.
So I kept looking. But social relations are a bit tricky here in Greece...
Girls are always playing hard to get, and most of them are alone in the end. Guys have lost their courage, we're not what we were a couple o' decades ago. So, finding the right mate and keeping it are two different, but exceptionally difficult things here.
I was serious, and was looking for serious commitment. But i did not find anything like it.
Hell, i'm not a monk, I don't expect to find meself a woman when I'm 30 or so!
I just keep looking and looking for the right girl out there. And when I grow restless, I just grab what's right in front of me and make the best out of it.
I don't intend to marry the girl, and she's not my slave (1?!) either. I give some things to her, she gives me some things in return and we're both happy. People marry in their 30s here, so serious commitment in my age is scarce, if not ficticious.
And I'm a sensible, strong-willed man.
What I want, I try to find. If there's nothing to find, I take what's next down the list.
You might think i'm a cold person, but I'm not. I've just been through a lot and i've become a bit of a pragmatist.
Oh, and i'm not evil, either. I just live my life, learn from my mistakes and make the best out of the given circumstances.
Or am i?

Well compared to some of us...:P

Don't feel bad about your age Terra, that's my job. I confluster myself about my age enough for everyone on the site. It kind of the opposite for me, at least with the people I know. I am one of the last hold out of my generation to not be married, as is my BF who happens to be 29. I know many individuals who decided it was best to wait until they graduated HIGH SCHOOL to get married. Now mind you some are my age (24/25) and already on their second marriages. (Those are some long stories.) I don't understand rushing into something like that. I want to get married more than most people I think, but not to just anyone.

Ale'ika I think you are ok when it come to the age thing, 17  and 19 are only two years apart, and depending on the state thats more than fine. In NJ 16 is the age of consent, so it depends. It sometimes also makes a difference as to what ages you were when you started dating. ( example. You are 17 she's 16 and thats ok. You have a birthday and now you are 18 and she is still 16.) I don't agree with laws like that because it all depends on the person. It should be up to the person and their parents (if they are still that young).

We don't have the money to go anywhere, but I don't care. I haven't had a vacation since February last year. At this point I don't care where I am, I want to get away from work. So I am taking off 5 days to just stay home and do nothing. We'll have fun of course, we're going to watch all the SW movies, play some games, go out a bit, and just laze around.

I'm 21, and he's 30, so that's a 9 1/2 year difference. But we don't mind. He seems younger, and I seem older. There are definitely differences, such as he's got maturity, experience..... a few gray hairs which I like to tease him about. But he also says I seem a lot older than I am, like I'm responsible and intelligent.

Awe that sounds like it will be really nice though. I do not think you have to go away though as long as you spend quality time with one another. I am sure that you will have a really funky honeymoon

I too have not had a vacation for a long time (I do not count visiting my parents as a vacation)

LOL the last time I went abroad was in 2002 I think and the last time I went on a vacation was in 2003. Hopefully next year we will be able to either go camping or rent a cottage in the highlands.

GoodnessI hear that pain. I have oh so many projects to catch up on for final cits. At least they arent to the 12 and the 14 of May. (My problem is that I am driving out to Indianapois that weekend before, so I have to make sure that everything is done before the 9, at least for sculpture. Painting is what it is.) For tomorrow I had/ have to make the choice over working on school art or spending time with the BF, who I am happy to say is seeming more serious. (lets hope i don't jinx anything!) I don't have the decipline to say no to him, over the alternative of working ( albeit work i enjoy and love to death).

oh it was fun, the pre-release part, not the ride home, but that was funny