Topic: Bf/Gf

Oh well. They pass and they go. And the best ones stay. :D

aye

No changes with me and my situation at the moment. Although, I don't think there's much life left with my current relationship. =/

What happened? Or more importantly, what didn't happen?

I need a Girlfriend one would probably calm me down

Well, judging from Cecelia's situation I would say what didn't happen was marriage. After, what, 7 years, there's only really two options: Breaking up or getting married. And doing neither is just wasting time.

true dat true dat

He did indeed go away, but only to find his respect for himself, and now... HE'S BACK!

Excail has come back, and I'm going to be making a new avatar soon, that will be matching my new image

One more thing, I'm single, and I don't know if it will change or not, but either way, I'm going to be happier now :D

Miba, I tend to think you are a bit strict on certain questions, but I have to agree with you on this one. :P

Relationship status "it's complicated"
he's cried so much. I couldn't bring myself to break up. not sure what will happen but we got a next date now. :/

I've been with my current boyfriend for over 2 years.On our 2nd anniversary he gave me a ring. It feels kind of funny to be single and not even engaged and have this ring on my left hand. I know my mother would comment upon it if she were alive today;however, this symbol of our commitment means a lot to me. Who know what will happen next. Of course, I'm over 40  and he's over 50 so maybe this getting married business is not so much of an issue.

I also thought about sharing non-engagement rings with my actual. But just today some new chick made an allusion to "morning touches" with him... knowing him I can only hope he's at least careful not to catch anything as diseases or stuff. *sigh*

I feel like I'm coupled with Jim Morrisson or something. The worst part is that I know I got his heart, but he can't keep his damn pants on. And as the other girls come and go, I just think of quitting. Just a question of meeting the right one and I'm gonna be off. To be happy with a cheater, you gotta cheat, too, and I can't do that.

Wow.

Why not just stick to your non-negotiables and be single for the time being?

I dunno. I know it's lame of me to say that. I guess I'm too much of a coward to jump out back into the void. We've been friends before, and I dunno how to stop this nonsense "relationship" without losing that too.

I'm just bitter from it all. I was expecting better from him. Deep inside I think I always knew he would do that, but was expecting him to act different just because it was me, and because of our past friendship.

Now I feel the only reason he's been such a great friend before, was because he couldn't have me. Or maybe his cheating thing is not something he can control, I dunno. I have a few married friends who cheat too, and they seem to think everyone does it.

I am starting to wonder if my ideals (or non negotiables) have to be updated to what seems to be "today's normal".
:(

Sounds like you could benefit from a change of scenery, new friends, and eventually a new relationship with shared values that you both hold dear. I'd recommend getting out and cutting all ties.

It all sounds really good. I don't know how I could make it happen in real, considering I have my daughters keeping me here, especially my little one, but I think it's a good idea and worth consideration.

Thanks for caring. You're a kind man.

Edit :
Well, it's over. I finally told him the truth about how I felt, and we managed to not let it grow into any drama. I think he wanted out, too. He wants to be friends again already, but I think I am going to take some time off from him and from the places where we used to hang out.

I for one now have a Girl Friend.

Congrats! Great time of the year to make one, too. I hope you two have alot of fun. What activities do you share together?

Congrats! Glad to hear about your decision to change it up. I think you'll feel much better in just a little bit of time. Good luck!

Movies and the normal Bf/Gf stuff

I'm back and this time by choice, funny this is the first topic I post in when I return XD

That aside I'm single and I'm actually kind of proud of it, relationships for me haven't been very promising, if you wish to know how, just private message me, I'd be glad to tell you :)

I want to apologize in public to Terra that (A.) I disappeared for so long, I had to find myself as she said and (B.) For not being fair to her and some of the others here when I started...

You all deserve better respect than what I gave for being so kind to me, and I'm very sorry not just to her, but to all of you

I for one, can understand.

Haven't dated since high school... I enjoy the single life, for the most part. It allows me to focus on myself, my independence, and my education.

Well, it's complicated. I know this woman who just wanted to be friends, but then she went out on a date with me. The date went well, we stayed out all night, and then I convinced her to let me stay at her place for the weekend. Now she wants to be "friends with benefits", it caught me off guard and all I could do was say OK. I am still not really clear on it myself?

I have not posted on this site in a while, but I am now in a relationship, have been since March of last year, I have been busy, and when I finally got time, my PC quit on me, so I had to go back to my old Pentium III backup, which is very limited, I hope the rest of you are faring well, there is one thing that I have learned to accept, the past is the past, you can't really do much about it, accept it and move on to a better life, living in regrets of love or mistakes only takes those precious moments away and makes you bitter and cold, I have had many ex's, but I shouldn't hold on to them, I should focus on the one I am with : )

Hi everybody! Long time no see, anyway I just wanted to say I am now out of my relationship with the man who I mentioned earlier who gave me the ring. It looks like he wants to move on with his life in another city.

Don't worry, we all have trouble, the best thing you can do is break the chains that bind you and move on, your life is better spent happy and without regret, look for someone who will respect your heart better :)

Sorry for the double post (If anyone's even watching) it's been a long time and I have been single for a while now, but it's fine, because I have learned some valuable lessons:

1.) If you can't move on and forget the ex's, you're not ready for a new relationship yet.

2.) If you can't respect and appreciate the one you end up with, you don't deserve them.

3.) If you hide your emotions, especially from your intended, they will feel like you don't trust them or love them, which will
     ultimately kill the relationship.

If only I had learned this sooner, I wouldn't have lost a lot of very good friends over my inevitable downfall, but I'm not worried, I'm just glad I can still live to have another chance, I hope for you all to have the best.

Excail

I've always been a Charlie Brown type of a guy so I don't have anyone. I actually do like being alone and watching or listening to whatever I want and whenever I want. :D