Topic: Money 1st or love 1st

I m having just a question that i m from rich family and then also i don't have true love that's why im asking this question ...

everyone here has common sense that if we have money we will get love automatically ..... but its not like that its too hard to found true lover who does not loves our money they loves our feeling ....

Love conquers all. (Same can be said for happiness.)

Money is paper. And temporary.

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didn't expect such a heartfelt response from the silent overlord ;)

found someone have we?

That kind of love isn't true love, just love of money.  When the money is gone, so is the "love". As for true love...if theres a better feeling then that, I've yet to have found it.

Haha. I'll keep my private life private. But I love my day job. ;)

its nice to see more posts from the admin turnin up

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Thanks!

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Love first. Money second. But love and money would be nice. I am married so you got to know it isnt money. LOL

Ideally, both, but if both is not possible love should always come first. Money is just a vehicle or an abstraction if you for getting the things that we need or want. Things alone cannot make us truly happy.

Here is something to do....take your "lover" out on a date to a expensive restaurant...let the person get what they and you hold back...get cheaper stuff...then when the check comes make like you forgot your wallet...then ask your "lover" if they would pay for it. If they don't really love you they will likely get mad and walk out...on you...if they really care, they will pay for it and not bother you about it.

Not that it will work. but its what I would do...

Karson, that's a bad idea. The reaction to the event depends on the sort of person they are. I would be upset if f my husband, whom I love lots, "forgot his wallet". That doesn't mean I wouldn't love him. People can be upset and mad at each other and still love each other, it's normal. If I had "forgotten my wallet", he would have shrugged it off. Because I care more about money than he does. However, when the truth came out and the other learned that it had been a test, that's when the real fighting and trouble starts, and the reason behind the event is likely to break you up than the event itself.

You shouldn't have to test someone like that. If you (not you specifically, you in general) don't trust the other person enough that you have to resort to doing things like that then maybe there's something wrong with you, and not them.

Oh but it's okay when girls decide to test their men with silly things like that?  Pffft.

Not when it's about something big like money.

If you ask me 'love' and 'feelings' are just as temporary and fleeting as money. They say money can't buy everything, maybe so if you dont use it right. But money is resources, and you can accomplish things with resources. Love just makes you feel good.

Having people act fake around you comes with the position you have but it's a small price to pay considering what a lot of people have underneath their mask. Use your money correctly and you'll be able to find out if she/he loves you or not. But don't regret having money just because you cant find Mr. or Misses. 'Right'. Don't sacrifice your lifestyle for someone else on the notion that they 'love' you.

Bad idea Karson. What happens if she forgets Her purse. Besides jokes like that always backfire