Topic: Anger management thread

Thank you Terra :D

(hugs) for you too. I really hope that things pick up for you two soon.

The only thing annoyance I have today is the weather. I am sick of the relentless rain :( I have got nappies (diapers) on the line and I will never get them dry unless the rain stops :( please go away rain.

I am however feeling much brighter today :D Back to normal in fact :D

I want to have a rant about the fecking weather. I am sick of the fecking rain. It is tipping it down outside. The relentless rain. I have had enough. Please go away. I think is has rained every day for over a week now :(

Edited to add Sundays rant to the post:

I am not happy as Devil boy has told me that the force unleashed will not be released on PC. I am not happy at all about that. I do not like playing games on the PS3. I do not like my hands being so close together. I hope they release it on the Wii at least. I would be so sad if I was not able to play this game as it looks awesome. I really wish they had not have pulled the PC version.

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Yes TFU is going to be on the Wii... :D special modes for it too.

I hate false people that lie straight to your face. Who say they are you're friends in one breath, but shun you with their actions.

I DIDNT MEAN IT SI! HONEST! :(

I'm about to get my life destroyed.

My neighbors (one in particular, the one on top of me) want me outta here. That woman on top of me accused me and threatened me of such terrible things, I really wish I could talk to John at the moment.

Years ago she's been making lots of noise at some point and I went and asked her politely to stop. She slammed her door to me that day. Today she said on that day I came close to use violence on her and her kid back then! It's not true at all, I only talked to her. Or tried to.

She also said I'm insane and in need of medication, that the fact that my baby doesn't live with me tells a lot about the kind of mother I am (I can't afford a bigger apartment and I don't have a room for her here, my ex is a millionnaire, that's why she lives with him rather than me), that I'm a bitch. She said she'll have me out of here, send me to prison, and would like me to suicide.

When John was here we've been up at night mostly, so we have been a bit noisy. Sometimes more than a bit. So that woman went and met all the neighbors and made them sign a paper to have me out.

Now I feel like a shit. She had hell fall on me and she was happy of everything she told me. And of turning nearly everyone against me in the building.

Insane and in need of medication? Am I really that bad? :.............(

I've been over-tired with school and pregnancy at the same time last semester. It's been huge as stress and responsibilities. I dragged that for a long time.

I'd want to live with her (my little baby) everyday and I can't, makes me feel not much of a mother. I'd want each night with my bf to be perfect, and I couldn't realize that lately, and it makes me feel terrible. Pure badluck, lack of organization, lack of energy. I'm trying to forgive myself, and forgive events, but it's tough. I want to make things better and have them stay better. Will help a lot.

I feel terrible right now. I really don't want you people to think of me like that woman does. I do my best.

NO WAY! You are a great person. Who ever is perfect and blissfully happy all the time is the one with the problem. I have seen bad neighbors like this before. Its not you its her. Completely. She doesn't realize that some noise comes with the territory of apartment living. And frankly your children and parenting skills are none of her business.

She's the one that needs to high tail it out of there before I come up there and... persuade her to do so.

Oh no Terra (hugs) you are a wonderful person and I think of you as a great friend (hugs)

I am so, so sorry that you are having such a tough time at the moment and that you are getting such trouble from your neighbors :( you really deserve for things to be running smoothly.

I wish there was something that I could do to help. Is there anyone that can speak to that would help you. In the UK there is something called the citizens advise bureau. (http://www.citizensadvice.co.uk/ ) Is there anything like that where you are?

You are a wonderful mother. You are doing what you feel is the best for your LO, and while the arrangement will hurt you are putting your LO's best interests first. If you were a bad mother you would not be doing that. That is all that we can do. There will come a point where she can spend more time with you.

Here are some more (hugs) I really, really hope that things start to pick up for you (hugs) if there is anything at all that I can do to help then please let me know.

The force will be with you (hugs)

Thanks girls you're the sweetest *BIG HUG*

You're welcome :D you are lovely as well (hugs)

Oh and I forgot to say. Thank you Si :D That is great news that the force unleashed will be out for the Wii. I will get it for that then (I prefer the controls and I think this would be a great game for it as well) I am again looking forward to getting it :D

I Hate Lazy Customers That Can't Put Their Damn Shopping Carts Away When They Are Done!

Terra, that's awful. I don't think you're bad. I like you. :)

Thanks Miba, you're very kind. Means a lot to me.

You could sue her for deception and harrasment. Even if you just threatened to sue her, she would probably back down.

I'm sure your a good person, don't let the freak next door get you down.

suing always gets people to shut up. is she old? usually senior citizens want to express their rights and complain to get some peace and quiet. of course since you can't use cocktails or chlorine bombs in an apartment building (too messy), you'll have to count me out on helping you. she could also be mistaking you for someone else for the noise.

Thanks guys.

She's not much older than me but she's lonely, fat, ugly, and I think she tries to destroy my life to forget a bit about her own misery. She couldn't bear hearing my joy with my man, I think that's what pissed her most and made her do all that.

She's frustrated that her life sucks and her only pleasure is into destroying others. Me in particular. Don't know why, I never did anything to her. Except existing and maybe have a better life than hers.

Still, she shook my nerves bad with all the hatred and horrible things she said to my face. And now I have a hell of a headache.

she needs to go to a club, methinks. perhaps she's just jealous?

I don't really know you Terra, but I'm against people like that. I would help you if I kow how, but I don't. I'm sorry that she is a b****, but no one can help that. Sorry that I cannot help you.

I can't believe that b****! I think you are such an awesome person terra! I couldn't ask for a better friend. She is jealous that you have a better life than her terra. You should threaten to sue her for harrasment and decimation of character.

Thats pretty serious terra... just give me her apartment number and she'll be....disposed of.....

Well all i can say is that that woman doesnt sound to...friendly to say the least.

She can call the cops all she wants theres nothing they can do to you, in fact you can complain about her harrasing you, and they might look into it.

You have people here who will support you no matter what Terra. You sound like a great person to me. If she does call the cops, it would probably turn against her for false accusations. Your word against hers, and you sound to be the better person. Anyone in their right mind would side with you in this case. My prayers are with you Terra.

And mine.

You're all very sweet. *hug*
Thanks a lot for being so kind and friendly. You're all very good ppl. Thanks for all your positive thoughts and energy sent my way. Feels good after today's mess with that person.

#21... :P

Just the guys and gals here? What about Fett_II? :P

Seriously though, you could sue her for harrasment, deception, and I think assassination of character. If she doesn't let up, I'd recommend it.

lol. ok i changed my message :P

I don't have time or energy to waste on her. Already got a lot going in my life as it is, and much more important things to take care of. But thanks for being on my side. Kind of you.

hmm i wonder what the old message read :)

"guys and gals", and Draco seems to think you are something different :P

ah, well he is too.

If you mean supremely awesome, then yes, I am.

I hate animal cruelty, especially the fur trade. I also hate PETA.

i hate eggs, chick flicks, jar jar binks, rap, pop, country, tomatoes, cowboy hats, baseball, jupiter, will ferrel, green, lisa simpson aaaaannnnnnd canada.

Me too draco.

Why Lisa Simpson?

Yeah, that Jupiter's a bitch.

I hate New Jersey and all the people here.

By Green do you mean the color or the person? I wholeheartedly agree if it's the person. I agree with all of those except eggs and cowboy hats. Cowboy hats are cool and eggs are awesome. And I hate Uranus more then Jupiter, but that's my opinion.

You hate me Si? What did I ever do to you??? *sobs and runs away*   :P

i will now legally take offense to your hatred of Canada :D

Si why do you hate everyone here?

Cowboy hats are cool... especially my man with his cowboy hat. He's sexy with that. ;)

And, Regimas, I'll try not to feel offended by your hatred of Canada, being geographically Canadian myself... but being really Quebecer at heart.

lol, don't take my post seriously and definitely don't be offended.
the only true dislike on there is jar jar and a certain color/individual....wink wink nudge nudge...
the others were just the most random things i could think of :P

i think Si meant to write "there" not "here." Otherwise she gon' have Hell from us!

LOL at the posts on this thread :D very funny :D

I do wish that there were more hours in the day. I do not have enough time to get what I want done :/

Edited to add, You neighbor sounds so charming :( I really hope that you can get something sorted out about her as that is not what you need to be living next to :( (hugs)

Indeed, and thanks, if I could make her disappear with a move of the finger, Zap, she'd be long gone as I really didn't need her on top of everything else as stress.

Regimas, I was just kidding, I agree totally about the Jar Jar thingy, and I hope you don't mind if I'm the Joker this halloween as well. Might try to find something else, but I'm considering either him, or maybe one of the KISS guys again, but I've been them so much.

I agree with you on wanting more hours in a day! I could use some sleep, that'd be nice. I hate waking up in the morning exhausted. I hate laying awake for what feels like hours too tired to even roll over, yet not able to fall asleep.

Oh I am sorry for being unclear. My disdain for the people in my state was certainly not about you guys here! And I don't know if I ever knew you were from the garden state MandoGirl ( but it helps clarify the Bon Jovi thing ;) )

I just kinda hate being here... that my life is here...

I vote yay on needing more hours in a day. I have the complete inability to get anything done it seems.

No i am not from Jersey, i thought you meant you hated everyone here as in the site. I am a New Yorker (and proud of it) sorry about the misunderstanding Si :)

I hate it when people who used to hate you suddenly try to be your new best friend (and try even harder to be subtle at being more than that.)

Yeah sorry. Clarification: I DO NOT HATE ANYONE ON BFFC! I hate people in NEW JERSEY ( as long as they arent on the BFFC).

OK...*sniff*....as long as you don't hate me I will be OK :P

I hate New Jersey too. My dad sucks and I have to move to Florida (yay!) before my mom's credit goes down the toilet. Don't ask.

i hate Jersey too, i wish my mom's cousins would move out of there (even if they moved to like Pennsylvania, which my grandfather's relatives all pretty much live there, so i'm used to the super long car rides), it's boring to have to travel an hour just for a party. MG, us NYers rule.

To quote Wierd Al, "I sued Delta Airlines because they cold me a ticket to New Jersey. I went there adn it sucked!"

Yeah NJ sucks. It's way too cold and yucky in the winter, and it drains the energy out of you. Plus, taxes  and stuff are VERY expensive here.

I have never been to New Jersey so I cannot comment there ;)

You're welcome Terra :D we all need the power of the force, then all you would need to do would be wave your hand in front of her and say 'You will leave me alone and be a nice neighbor'

Today has not been good for things breaking. My daughter decided to put somethings in the back of the printer so last night when I tried to print something off the paper got jammed and no matter what I have done it keeps saying something is jammed :(

Then when I was out with my camera I switched it on to see big cracks down the viewfinder :( the camera works but not the viewfinder. I have no idea how it happened. I cannot see any evidence of any damage to it. I will check to see if thee is anything that can be done under warranty about it. The same goes for the printer as well. I wonder what the third thing will be to break.