Topic: Bf/Gf

there is nothing wrong with sounding motherly

I hope everything works out funkily for you :)

I met Devil boy through and online computer game. We have been together for nearly 5 years now :)

LOL Terra, It is too easy to fall into the trap of being motherly. I have been like that as well (I am also a mother)

thats ok people think im their dad sometimes

I don't have a bf, but I was kinda hoping I could find one here. ;)

Lol; I'm taken, but maybe you should send A_A a PM.........:P

nice... :P

still single, although one guy did have enough courage to ask me to a school dance, but I already said I'd go with someone else.  I felt so bad afterwards cause I think he really likes me still :(

Aw, I think that's sweet. Hey you never know where things could go. I"m still surprised by how things have and are turning out with mine.

I feel dumb for asking, but who's A_A?

ok?

yeah, now i feel really stupid.

wow...-sigh- my buddy told me to try this, and maybe it was unwise of me.

Hey, don't feel down.  Was just a friendly joke.  We don't bite  :)   Sorry if we * I * made you feel that way, and hope you can still enjoy the site

Shut up RD......

I Want a Girlfriend.

Same. When I'm older that is. My 19-year old bro has a GF. She's called Emily, and she has the " TOTALLY " same humour as my brother. It's Class.

Note* - for those of you who don't know......I am 12 now.

ExtraNote* - Emily has a present for me, since my birthday was only about 2-3 weeks ago.

Don't worry about it lecalli. We're not so serious here. Well, I know I'm not and I'm certaintly not holding anything against you. Stay and have fun! :D Like the lotto guy says... "Hey you never know."

( Barbie girl comes on. :D )

Rubbish, song. Why ever did they invent it!? :D lol.

Stupid!

Weird, but for some reason I got the same feeling; not sure, but he might have been making a hint like that...........

SPAM anyone? SPAM is delicious, very tasty!

ON TOPIC:

I think your gf is right here RD................And I think your wrong. Why don't you go post on AoS now ?:P

Yes.  And for something at Youth I had to drink spam, broccoli, coke, milk, smarties, french fries and mushrooms all mixed together.  Nasty stuff.

Speaking of spam: http://youtube.com/watch?v=anwy2MPT5RE

No wonder you like math.............that stuff messed you up BAD       :P

I got meself a gf yesterday!
Woohoo, she's a cutie but dumb as hell. I hate unintelligent people.
And I hate being alone. So, I compromise.
This should be fine for a month or so...

It's not strange, Terra. Its just that i'm not afraid to state the truth. I keep meeting new girls only to find out they're complete bozos. It's been a long time since I last had a girl to have a conversation with, to se that we're fine together, that we accord. I'm not a lonely person, and I'm not a lucky person. So, every now and then, I find a nice-looking girl, have fun with, kill with a pick-axe and then dispose of. Simple, clean job.

Hey, why are you saying this? We still got plenty!
Hahaha, ok, i do not kill all of them. It's not that funny, after all!

Me and my fiancee got rings today! :) The wedding is the week after next. So close, it's getting exciting.

Congrats Miba! Hope you and your future husband have a great time :D

Congratulations!

no, not funny at all......................................but would make a GREAT Horror Flick!   :D

Need a script writer?  :P

No you dind't!  Would love to hear it   :D

and maybe script write ti...............;)

Yea! It seems like only yesterday you were getting engaged. *sigh*

Yeah thanks terra.  The one teacher I work with just got married a few weeks ago and my one co-worker at the program (who just turned 21 this year mind you...) is engaged and getting married in July. Plus time is just flying by.

:) Thanks.

And, yeah, time seems to have really flown.

Congratulations, Miba!
We may not have been properly introduced, but you made me happy tonight!
Hope you're happy as hell!

Ah, I completely forgot. This is my new girlfriend, Anna Maria. How do you like her? Should I keep her or not?
Hah..

I would rather be alone than be with some one who does not care about me. At least I care about me. But then again that's what I think. I'm thinking that its a pic she gave him.

Hey, I'm not that bad! I was only kidding back there!
I like her a lot, all right, but it's been a mere days that we've been together and I cannot say I'm in love or something. She's nice, but I cannot have a decent conversation with her. I care about her, but our interests are completely different. I collect stuff, watch movies, play my guitar, read novels, english and american literature and a bunch of other things. She likes to go out with friends and listen to greek trash music.
We do not accord, and that's a sad thing. BUT, I'm not a lonely person. I cannot stand being alone, so I kinda need her. I like her a lot, and I try to compromise. I'm not a sexist! I love women! I'm just weird...
As for "the one", I'm sick and tired of waiting. I'm a very strange person, if I were to wait for an equally strange mate, I'd surely die of old age..
Oh, and I took the photo with my cellphone, but I forgot to rotate it when I uploaded it (90 degrees to the left), so that's why it seems a bit strange. Here's another;

How'd you up load it? I've wanted to do that for sometime.

I'm sorry you're lonely Nazde. My best friend growing up was very much the same way, always needing someone, regardless of the quality of the relationship. If shes a new GF, give it some time because things may develop into something. I understand the "weird". I too have had relationships that i don't really know how to explain. Maybe some day I will. It took me many years of waiting to find who I am with now, and I couldn't be happier with them. Don't give up! I know there are individuals that are smart, good looking, and have actual taste in music and movies.

shes a cutie, but if u have nothing in common its at best a house of cards. but if ur a serial dater...and u dont care to be alone, enjoy the ride. you only go around once.

If ur looking for a relationship w/ longevity obviously ur gonna have to find someone that like to talk lit, and culture etc. for the record i date alot, and the relationships where i cant relate to the girl/ woman, dont outlast the milk in my refrigerator.

one question i always ask early on is "do u know who boba fett is?" :P

i don't consider myself a serial dater, just independent. i dont bend to the ways of societal norms,
i will settle down when im compelled to, many of my other friends rushed to marry in their 20s,
i shrugged off the picket fence, it will be there when im ready.
:)
glad u found happiness w/ RD-it can prove to be quite elusive at times.

Whoa, it's really getting hot in here!
Im no way a serial dater! More like the other way around..
I used to be a serious guy. I craved for commitment, but i had the wrong age..
I'm 21 years old and I've had more or less nearly 20 relationships. Some of them were serious, or they intended to, some of them were just conviviality, some were a complete waste of time.
Sad thing is I matured a lot earlier than I was supposed to, and could not find a like-minded girl.
So I kept looking. But social relations are a bit tricky here in Greece...
Girls are always playing hard to get, and most of them are alone in the end. Guys have lost their courage, we're not what we were a couple o' decades ago. So, finding the right mate and keeping it are two different, but exceptionally difficult things here.
I was serious, and was looking for serious commitment. But i did not find anything like it.
Hell, i'm not a monk, I don't expect to find meself a woman when I'm 30 or so!
I just keep looking and looking for the right girl out there. And when I grow restless, I just grab what's right in front of me and make the best out of it.
I don't intend to marry the girl, and she's not my slave (1?!) either. I give some things to her, she gives me some things in return and we're both happy. People marry in their 30s here, so serious commitment in my age is scarce, if not ficticious.
And I'm a sensible, strong-willed man.
What I want, I try to find. If there's nothing to find, I take what's next down the list.
You might think i'm a cold person, but I'm not. I've just been through a lot and i've become a bit of a pragmatist.
Oh, and i'm not evil, either. I just live my life, learn from my mistakes and make the best out of the given circumstances.
Or am i?

since im to lazy to read through everything im just going to post an update, things are going well with my girlfriend im still waiting for november when she turns 18 then i we can visit without me worrying about getting my shebs arrested (im 19 for those who dont know

Well compared to some of us...:P

It's not that bad, you're only 10 years older than me...
Oh, and it's cool. I did not try to justify myself, I just said some things that had to be said, 'cause that's the way it is.
Different culture, different circumstances, different people...
Oh, and about your man, he's just great. I guess you're a lucky missus, Terra.
Hell, you got babies! You're luckier than you can imagine... :)

Don't feel bad about your age Terra, that's my job. I confluster myself about my age enough for everyone on the site. It kind of the opposite for me, at least with the people I know. I am one of the last hold out of my generation to not be married, as is my BF who happens to be 29. I know many individuals who decided it was best to wait until they graduated HIGH SCHOOL to get married. Now mind you some are my age (24/25) and already on their second marriages. (Those are some long stories.) I don't understand rushing into something like that. I want to get married more than most people I think, but not to just anyone.

Ale'ika I think you are ok when it come to the age thing, 17  and 19 are only two years apart, and depending on the state thats more than fine. In NJ 16 is the age of consent, so it depends. It sometimes also makes a difference as to what ages you were when you started dating. ( example. You are 17 she's 16 and thats ok. You have a birthday and now you are 18 and she is still 16.) I don't agree with laws like that because it all depends on the person. It should be up to the person and their parents (if they are still that young).

I have just seen this :D that is so funky :D I hope you have a really fab wedding and honeymoon (where will you be going? )

Hei terra, I am older than you :D (I am 32 and will be 33 in August)

We don't have the money to go anywhere, but I don't care. I haven't had a vacation since February last year. At this point I don't care where I am, I want to get away from work. So I am taking off 5 days to just stay home and do nothing. :) We'll have fun of course, we're going to watch all the SW movies, play some games, go out a bit, and just laze around.

I'm 21, and he's 30, so that's a 9 1/2 year difference. But we don't mind. He seems younger, and I seem older. There are definitely differences, such as he's got maturity, experience..... a few gray hairs which I like to tease him about. But he also says I seem a lot older than I am, like I'm responsible and intelligent.

I know the feeling. I'm younger and my man is older. But hey at least you had a vacation last year. I haven't had a real good vacation where it was just for fun, and no family members died while I was away and had to return since...i think Las Vegas in 1999. Or does the 3 days my family spent at my grandfathers in South Carolina in 2002 count? It wasn't fun thats for sure. It was my sister, myself and my 2 cousins in one room and my one cousin had a horrific case of the stinky farts. Oh well.... sorry that was a rant...

Well you can take a honeymoon when you have the money for something truely fantastic. The importaint part sometimes is the getting married. I wish you two all the best.

Awe that sounds like it will be really nice though. I do not think you have to go away though as long as you spend quality time with one another. I am sure that you will have a really funky honeymoon :D

I too have not had a vacation for a long time (I do not count visiting my parents as a vacation)

LOL the last time I went abroad was in 2002 I think and the last time I went on a vacation was in 2003. Hopefully next year we will be able to either go camping or rent a cottage in the highlands.

well terra school has been kicking my shebs since its almost finals

GoodnessI hear that pain. I have oh so many projects to catch up on for final cits. At least they arent to the 12 and the 14 of May. (My problem is that I am driving out to Indianapois that weekend before, so I have to make sure that everything is done before the 9, at least for sculpture. Painting is what it is.) For tomorrow I had/ have to make the choice over working on school art or spending time with the BF, who I am happy to say is seeming more serious. (lets hope i don't jinx anything!) I don't have the decipline to say no to him, over the alternative of working ( albeit work i enjoy and love to death).

see i was just in Indy last weekend, which kinda angered my girlfriend because i went to a Magic the gathering pre-release with a group of guys (that had been in the works for nearly 2 months) instead of going to cleveland to see her... but oh well she got over it... mainly because i had to ride hump on the way back between two guys that fell asleep with heads on my shoulder

oh it was fun, the pre-release part, not the ride home, but that was funny

You must show him youtube :D:D:D:D:D:D:D