Topic: I feel weird.

hi you could join my clan on halo the sos brigade if you cant make friends in real life use halo pc
just remeber sos is the best

if theres a bully jump kick his head put a bunny costum on him than two words black mail after thats he should never bully you again  Hy ya

I coulda been Lord Nihilus of the site, but now I have a dinosaur avatar. So now I'm Ni Ni Nae the dinosaur of the site. :P

Hey, SOS haruhi, posting twice in a row is considered spam, and generally frowned upon in most forums.  If you use the edit button in the corner of the post, you can add to your previous one, and avoid having one of the older members crack down on you.  (Trust me, it happens to all of us at one point or another.)

I can't really call myself Boba Fett of the site, could I?  If there was ever a Mando Sith.....*sighs* That'd be awesome.  But I hear ya when you say, A_A, that people're copying you.  Good ideas and all, like to go around.

And as to the whole conforming thing, I think some people who know me in the obscure thing known as real life (if you know what this is, please let me know, I am in the dark) would complain that I try too much not to fit in...to the point of being a royal pain....without the royalty.

sorry about this is my first time on a form

Hey no problem.  I did that a lot too.  (And got chewed out a bit for it)  Mistakes are made to help us learn, eh?

thanks for understanding

lol. I love Darth Maul anyway. :) He is one of my favourite sith's. I think sith are cool.

Note* - I only copied AA's idea because I thought it was cool.

You got chewed up for it? Now who would do that? Oh, right.

Anyways, we should get back on topic.

I am okay now. I am now 12 and have had my birthday. I got a new mobile-phone. The Sony Ericsson K660i, and a ticket to see anthony horowitz and get signed free copies of his book Snakehead ( you also get a free T-shirt aswell ) , a paint it yourself mug/easter egg holder thingy? Three awesome cards from, my mum, my stepdad and my granny. My stepdad got me a hilarious star wars one, which had luke .vs. vader. Vader said " Drat! I forgot to put my lightsabre, ( or to me...lightsaber ) on charge! So ROTFL! I got a book of dangerous things for boys...... and some clothes from my granny and various other things. :P :D

I'm not sure what a couple of those things are, but congratulations.

Happy Birthday then greenie. Glad you enjoyed yourself.

Thank you, Si, Draco. I had a great day. I am currently at my dads. I got KOTOR off him. I can't wait to play it at home

uh did any one even read my post about how to deal with bullies read that stop thinking

Well with your first post I hardly call forgetting your problems a solution.  An then drop kicking someone in the face never really worked.  And blackmail isn't that useful.

Black mailing someone is a class 3 offense in the code of conduct.
Thats bad.

how is black mail not a good solution if some one got you in a bunny girl outfit and took a picture of you and threatened to show it to people if you did not do what they said what would you do?
i am haruhi the god of this site and leader of the sos brigade

If it's any help Masterchief I have spent a good portion of my childhood and adolescence "feeling weird".  So if anything you are not alone.

Thanks Sharra. I feel better. I felt weird like a month ago right now. :)

Note* - Sos haruhi, please say something that links to the topic. Thanks! :)

i am black mail solves all problems including bullys

Except that it is a low and underhanded method of getting what you want.  I would never resort to it.  Even as a villain on KotOR blackmail was always the last option.  I'm one of the "I don't need dirty tactics to beat you down" people.

But It is a CLASS 3 OFFENSE! If you are caught it won't be good

What discussion are we talking about now? I'm not sure it has anything to do with the topic. :)

what do you mean i do it all the time on kotor i did it on that medical guy on taris and i got creidits and also i did it to that guy who was scaird of davik i got 50 creadits for that

This is the REAL WORLD! You can't blackmail some one in the Real WORLD and expect to get away with it.

Yes. What Karson said.....

Blackmail is horrible. remember on Spiderman 3 when Harry expected M. J to tell Peter she didn't love him, when she actually did? :O :) :( That's sad......

yes but if it works $

It wont work, they can call the cops on you, you'll get arrested. Not fun.

but it might

No, no it wont, the only way it would work is if the persons actions were scripted, which I'm pretty sure their not.

BACK TO TOPIC

i was meaning if they were bulling you.
black mail then
you just tell him not to bully you again and he won't and the cops won't arrest you for that because your just trying not to get bullyed

now unless you have some thing to say about that i will be on my way

He's got a point, AA. But other black mail is bad. Don't do it unless it's about bullying reasons.   

As AA said, BACK TO TOPIC

I am definetly okay now. I saw and met and shaked hands and got my photo taken with with the famous children's book author - Anthony Horowitz, and he signed the book of his, Snakehead, and i got a goodiebag aswell , with in it  - a skeleton key ( one of his books by the same story as Snakehead ) CD set with the book in ( I have got it, but this one has a shiny cover and a picture of a great white shark on it ) and 5 CD's to tell the story of Skeleton Key, a black T-Shirt with the Snakehead logo ( picture ) on it, and advertisising a new book on the back bit, and a behind the scenes Stormbreaker book. Stormbreaker was the starting book of the Alex Rider books.

Even at school you can get in trouble for extortion ITS A CLASS 3 OFFENCE

nice. good books. but on topic

Blackmail is bad. Obviously. If the problem was serious, like bullying, then there's no reason to blackmail them. If you're that worried about it, then just tell someone in authority. They'll help, and it's a better solution. And drop-kicking  people? Now YOU'RE the bully. And you'll be in trouble. If beating people up, hurting them, blackmailing them, etc. is your primary method of dealing with people (which is the impression I get from your posts and RP charrys) then that's a SERIOUSLY bad way to do so. No one will like you, and you'll likely get in serious trouble one day.

I agree.

I also agree. But SOS, seriously! Do not blackmail unless someone is bullyling you! It is still bad, but it's better than normal blackmail.

BACK ON TOPIC

I have only spotted this thread this morning.

I waited to reply properly so I waited until Devil Boy had taken my eldest out for a walk and the twins are napping (LOL well supposed to be but I can hear them blethering to each other :) )

Anyway that is not nice that you are having a tough time at the moment :( (hugs) I really hope that things pick up for you soon.

I was bullied when I was at school (my mum was a teacher at the same school that I went to) it was really hard. I ignored it at the time. This then meant that whoever was calling me names got bored after a while but sadly someone else would start afterward so it meant that I was bullied for pretty much five years.

This had a bad effect on me. It killed my confidence and self esteem. I thankfully have my confidence and self esteem back but it took a long time and a lot of work.

Another thing that I struggled with was feeling like I do not fit in anywhere. Now i am very comfortable with who I am and where I fit in. I think for that it just takes time and experience to do this. The only thing I can say about that is that it is not wrong to be different (those who call you for being different are just too scared to be so) the world would be an incredible dull place if we were all the same.

From my experience about bullying the only thing I can say to you is to do something about your situation now (I know it is easier said than done but it will be worth it if you are able to, just take one step at a time though)

From what I understand Martial arts are really good for helping develop your confidence. I am not saying beat your bullies to a pulp but I think it would give you the confidence to be able to turn around to them and tell them that you will not tolerate what they are doing any more. You may not want to do that but it might be worth finding an interest to help build your confidence.

Good luck with whatever you do. I really hope that you are able to improve your situation.

The force will be with you.

I feel alone in this forum.No one likes me here...and why?
Couse Im not from UK or USA???
I love BFFC but I feel alone.No friends here. :( :( :(

What gave you that impression F3TT? Has someone come out and actually said that? I don't think it would having anything to do with not being from the UK or USA, as we have many multicultural members here. AU, Greece etc.

This topic gave me that impression...

What?

Some times we dissagree in a topic and discuss things, its not always personally about someone, but rather a topic.

F3tt, I do not know why you think that no one likes you. I think you are funky.

I hope you start to feel better soon.

Thanks.I feel better.Thanks for you.

I got bullied today at school. one of my emo friends ( not me! ) ( looks behind shoulder ) wanted a ringtone of the AK-47 machine gun on my mobile phone. Sony Ericsson K66oi. CLASS! :D It was cool, but then my arch-enemy  - Reece Lacey, was being a dick and started saying I was gay and crap like that. I AM NOT GAY! I am too young to be anyway. What should I do? He respondes with other people and they agree with him?!!?!?!?

ARGH!

Note* - Reece Lacey is an utter chav ( a.k.a - CHAVERT! )

hey brother, i its probably not wise to mention people full names on here w/ out their permission.

in response to ur question, growing up is never easy-for any number of reasons. and trust me when i say when u become an adult a whole new set of issues will reveal themselves. such is life.

but bullies on any level are simple creatures, just remember the malice or anger they direct at u- is baggage they have to carry not u. let that stuff roll off ur back. if someone is calling u names...gay for example, just shake ur head and tell them to "stop projecting, i'm not interested." it will at least confuse them :P

and the last thing ill ever advocate is violence, but don't let anyone push u around. to quote LOST "dont tell me what i cant do!" stand up for urself- because its a long road homie and it doesnt get smoother.

Do you know if your school has a zero-tolerance policy? Most if not all schools in the U.S. have a policy, where there will be no tolerance for bullying or bullies. (Thats why they are called zero-tolerance.) I am not one for "tattling" as a whole, but this seems to be more than just a one time occurance that you are really bothered with. Check with your mom or principal/ headmaster to see what the rules on bullies are. Then make sure you tell those who are in a place of power to make it stop. They might seem hard but in the long run it might be better.

I agree with Si Titran.

I agree.

Hey, thanks for the karma point, F3TT! :D

You're a good friend. I am thankful your a member here. :)