actually im kinda getting that at the moment, i have a crush on a friend of mine, she is actually kinda normal, (i'm pretty sure i could get her to join the fighting 501st with me) and lucky for me she is having trouble with her boyfriend, but wont break up with him until she has a sure thing of someone who wants to date her... i just dont really want to swoop in and take advantage of the situation
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It's nice to see a guy who doesn't want to take advantage of a girl like that, most guys I know would have, although she does sound a bit off, not wanting to break up with the guy until she knows she can just switch to another guy. Anyhow, I think I'm gonna give the whole BF situation a break, considering the guy that I was interested in, just asked my close friend out :( Oh well, glad to see that there are other happy couples/marriages here on the BFFC :)
lol, too right. I have no GF, but i dont need love to keep me happy, anyway. I have my action figures ( hugs knees and rocks back and forth, with mad, demented look on face ) lol :D
see this is why magic the gathering is my friend, theres all kinda of poeple to go hang with
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actually im kinda getting that at the moment, i have a crush on a friend of mine, she is actually kinda normal, (i'm pretty sure i could get her to join the fighting 501st with me) and lucky for me she is having trouble with her boyfriend, but wont break up with him until she has a sure thing of someone who wants to date her... i just dont really want to swoop in and take advantage of the situation
Thats the best thing to do. Dont rush things, but let her know you like her at somepoint. Things will fall into place.
It's nice to see a guy who doesn't want to take advantage of a girl like that, most guys I know would have, although she does sound a bit off, not wanting to break up with the guy until she knows she can just switch to another guy. Anyhow, I think I'm gonna give the whole BF situation a break, considering the guy that I was interested in, just asked my close friend out :( Oh well, glad to see that there are other happy couples/marriages here on the BFFC :)
my suggestion
kick his shebs
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It's nice to see a guy who doesn't want to take advantage of a girl like that, most guys I know would have, although she does sound a bit off, not wanting to break up with the guy until she knows she can just switch to another guy. Anyhow, I think I'm gonna give the whole BF situation a break, considering the guy that I was interested in, just asked my close friend out :( Oh well, glad to see that there are other happy couples/marriages here on the BFFC :)
Ditch them both for they apparently do not care about your feelings.
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."
Well I dunno about ditching them. I mean, did either of them even know about what you felt?
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I always get the 'do they know how you felt', but what am I supposed to do, go up and say 'Hi, I really like you, we should go out'. I wish I could kick him in the, ahem, shebs but it's not even worth my time, guess I'll just look for a diff guy, but got to make sure he likes sw as much as I do of course :P
what am I supposed to do, go up and say 'Hi, I really like you, we should go out'.
Well you could try that....
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cloneapart wrote:what am I supposed to do, go up and say 'Hi, I really like you, we should go out'.
Well you could try that....
isnt that what they expect guys to do?
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Ale'ika Skirta wrote:Adeptus_Astartes wrote:Well you could try that....
isnt that what they expect guys to do?
Yes and no. You can always set a gang outing at first, so it's not all that obvious, and try to hang out particularly with that one person during the outing. Might be a way to get to know that person better, and see if there's any way you can get his/her atttention (other than friendly).
terra's approach worked for me. It didn't hurt that we're both upfront people and he just told me that he wanted to kiss me. At first I didn't think he ment a relationship, and not just a kiss, so when he went to hold my hand on the way home from the party I was surprised.
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."
terra wrote:Ale'ika Skirta wrote:isnt that what they expect guys to do?
Yes and no. You can always set a gang outing at first, so it's not all that obvious, and try to hang out particularly with that one person during the outing. Might be a way to get to know that person better, and see if there's any way you can get his/her atttention (other than friendly).
terra's approach worked for me. It didn't hurt that we're both upfront people and he just told me that he wanted to kiss me. At first I didn't think he ment a relationship, and not just a kiss, so when he went to hold my hand on the way home from the party I was surprised.
see that approach gets me into the friend zone
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Si Titran wrote:terra wrote:Yes and no. You can always set a gang outing at first, so it's not all that obvious, and try to hang out particularly with that one person during the outing. Might be a way to get to know that person better, and see if there's any way you can get his/her atttention (other than friendly).
terra's approach worked for me. It didn't hurt that we're both upfront people and he just told me that he wanted to kiss me. At first I didn't think he ment a relationship, and not just a kiss, so when he went to hold my hand on the way home from the party I was surprised.
see that approach gets me into the friend zone
Sorry to hear that. But i do think it is a good idea to be friends first. I just don't always know how to make it more. That's why i'm direct and like guys who are the same.
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."
Ale'ika Skirta wrote:Si Titran wrote:terra's approach worked for me. It didn't hurt that we're both upfront people and he just told me that he wanted to kiss me. At first I didn't think he ment a relationship, and not just a kiss, so when he went to hold my hand on the way home from the party I was surprised.
see that approach gets me into the friend zone
Sorry to hear that. But i do think it is a good idea to be friends first. I just don't always know how to make it more. That's why i'm direct and like guys who are the same.
see thats my problem, i never take advantage of a person, but i try and take advantage of the situation... which gets difficult to do since the two seem to commonly overlap so often
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I think I have the same problem Si, almost all the guys I like are really good friends of mine, and I'm pretty independent so sometimes I think they get scared of that. I don't really have many guy friends to be direct with, so I'm pretty much stuck
I landed a great relationship the first try, so those of you with problems, don't ask me; I can't relate :D
I think I have the same problem Si, almost all the guys I like are really good friends of mine, and I'm pretty independent so sometimes I think they get scared of that. I don't really have many guy friends to be direct with, so I'm pretty much stuck
if a guy is afraid of an independent woman, there is something wrong with his head ;)
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Ale'ika Skirta wrote:cloneapart wrote:I think I have the same problem Si, almost all the guys I like are really good friends of mine, and I'm pretty independent so sometimes I think they get scared of that. I don't really have many guy friends to be direct with, so I'm pretty much stuck
if a guy is afraid of an independent woman, there is something wrong with his head ;)
Some guys definitely are... but then they're not the ones for you.
There is a difference between an independent women and a stubborn women.
terra wrote:Ale'ika Skirta wrote:if a guy is afraid of an independent woman, there is something wrong with his head ;)
Some guys definitely are... but then they're not the ones for you.
There is a difference between an independent women and a stubborn women.
Yes. Independent meaning willing to take responsiblity for what and who are in their life, as apossed to stubborn which means unwilling to compromise and see other points of view. No one should want to be stubborn.
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."
Chaplain Grimaldus wrote:terra wrote:Some guys definitely are... but then they're not the ones for you.
There is a difference between an independent women and a stubborn women.
Yes. Independent meaning willing to take responsiblity for what and who are in their life, as apossed to stubborn which means unwilling to compromise and see other points of view. No one should want to be stubborn.
well there are some things that are good to be stubborn about
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I'm not stubborn :P No, I'm really not stubborn, but I can do things for myself and some guys just insist on helping me, which annoys me a bit because I can do things for myself. I always catch myself after these moments of independance but by then, it's to late and it's hard for me to change that streak of independance.
I'm not stubborn :P No, I'm really not stubborn, but I can do things for myself and some guys just insist on helping me, which annoys me a bit because I can do things for myself. I always catch myself after these moments of independance but by then, it's to late and it's hard for me to change that streak of independance.
well there are some things a polite guy might get flustered by, like opening doors
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I'm not talking about the normal politeness, although things like opening doors and such is appreciated. I'm talking more taking politeness to the next level of being a bit pushy. There might be hope yet though, new kid at school is kinda cute and flirty :P
I'm not talking about the normal politeness, although things like opening doors and such is appreciated.
Call me old school but that stuff to me is something that I make a habit to do. From the places I've been I have noticed a few things. This old lady was walking into a store and some guy dashed in front of her and didn't even hold the door in front of her. So she nearly smashed right into it. Personally that kind of stuff disgusts me. It's as simple as taking a few seconds of your time to hold the door open. Even just a extra shove as you are walking by helps. It seems the generation we are living in is the "me" generation. It's these things that may appear small but really in the long run help out quite a bit.
cloneapart wrote:I'm not talking about the normal politeness, although things like opening doors and such is appreciated.
Call me old school but that stuff to me is something that I make a habit to do. From the places I've been I have noticed a few things. This old lady was walking into a store and some guy dashed in front of her and didn't even hold the door in front of her. So she nearly smashed right into it. Personally that kind of stuff disgusts me. It's as simple as taking a few seconds of your time to hold the door open. Even just a extra shove as you are walking by helps. It seems the generation we are living in is the "me" generation. It's these things that may appear small but really in the long run help out quite a bit.
exactly
look at the way women are treated in society, and women complain about it, the major problem is that women seem to flock to men who mistreat them, and away from nice guys
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Like I said, normal politeness is appreciated, and I'm not one to go for the "bad boy" thing, it's just hard to find a guy who's polite and at the same time not to pushy. That was the problem with my first bf, was very polite, but acted as if I needed help just carrying a bottle of water, it got very old, very fast.
Ale'ika Skirta wrote:exactly
look at the way women are treated in society, and women complain about it, the major problem is that women seem to flock to men who mistreat them, and away from nice guysTrue about a certain type of women. Certainly not all.
true, i neglected to point out that that is only the majority of women in my experience and that not all women fit that general 'rule'
oh and my record is now up to 0-38
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What would be great is to find somebody that is nice when he should be, polite when he sould be and a real bad boy when its called for.
CA... if you like the new boy then I say try it out. I have found it never hurts to try.
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."
Si Titran wrote:What would be great is to find somebody that is nice when he should be, polite when he sould be and a real bad boy when its called for.
CA... if you like the new boy then I say try it out. I have found it never hurts to try.
Never hurts to try? Not so sure about that, but either way it can be a good way to learn about life. And emotions make you feel alive. Great things have been done from hurtful emotions.
Well that's what I believe. I also rather regret something I've done than not done. That's how you know you've lived.
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."
terra wrote:Ale'ika Skirta wrote:exactly
look at the way women are treated in society, and women complain about it, the major problem is that women seem to flock to men who mistreat them, and away from nice guysTrue about a certain type of women. Certainly not all.
true, i neglected to point out that that is only the majority of women in my experience and that not all women fit that general 'rule'
oh and my record is now up to 0-38
A record? Gotta wonder why these women are "making the majority of your experience". If you think all women around you are the same, gotta wonder what they have in common, else than... you.
Ale'ika Skirta wrote:terra wrote:True about a certain type of women. Certainly not all.
true, i neglected to point out that that is only the majority of women in my experience and that not all women fit that general 'rule'
oh and my record is now up to 0-38A record? Gotta wonder why these women are "making the majority of your experience". If you think all women around you are the same, gotta wonder what they have in common, else than... you.
other than female body parts not much
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ITS A CONSPIRACY!!!!!!!!!!!! (sorry couldn't help it. No notable updates on my status.)
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ITS A CONSPIRACY!!!!!!!!!!!! (sorry couldn't help it. No notable updates on my status.)
i swear that it is A_A
i have been given a grand total of 3 different speeches from these girls
"I love you like a brother"
"You are my best male friend, and i dont want to ruin our friendship"
"I just want to be friends, because i dont love you like that... but i do love you"
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Adeptus_Astartes wrote:ITS A CONSPIRACY!!!!!!!!!!!! (sorry couldn't help it. No notable updates on my status.)
i swear that it is A_A
i have been given a grand total of 3 different speeches from these girls
"I love you like a brother"
"You are my best male friend, and i dont want to ruin our friendship"
"I just want to be friends, because i dont love you like that... but i do love you"
Im sorry they've treated you that way. They give us girls a bad rep.
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."
Ale'ika Skirta wrote:Adeptus_Astartes wrote:ITS A CONSPIRACY!!!!!!!!!!!! (sorry couldn't help it. No notable updates on my status.)
i swear that it is A_A
i have been given a grand total of 3 different speeches from these girls
"I love you like a brother"
"You are my best male friend, and i dont want to ruin our friendship"
"I just want to be friends, because i dont love you like that... but i do love you"Im sorry they've treated you that way. They give us girls a bad rep.
well i have noticed that
cybergoths,
and girls that like star wars, anime, and lord of the rings
are awesome... they just all have boyfriends
maybe i should find onethat Plays Magic The gathering... wait they all have boyfriends aswell
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What's the ratio of males to females in the Star Wars/ anime/ LotR fan base? Is it 10/5 or something like that? Like there are much more guys than girls?
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."
Hey, I'm a Star Wars, lord of the rings girl, and still single :P Can't believe more girls aren't in to this kind of stuff, I love fiction and such. Oh well, got my dog and my car, don't need a guy to make me happy :D (although it would be an extra bonus :P )
Hey, I'm a Star Wars, lord of the rings girl, and still single :P Can't believe more girls aren't in to this kind of stuff, I love fiction and such. Oh well, got my dog and my car, don't need a guy to make me happy :D (although it would be an extra bonus :P )
I hear you 100%. Whenever I'm out and about people (mostly guys) can't believe that i'm into Star Wars, LotR, gaming and sports. Who needs men to be happy?
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."
i swear that it is A_A
i have been given a grand total of 3 different speeches from these girls
"I love you like a brother"
"You are my best male friend, and i dont want to ruin our friendship"
"I just want to be friends, because i dont love you like that... but i do love you"
Have you ever got "I don't want to kill you but I will if I have to"?
Ale'ika Skirta wrote:i swear that it is A_A
i have been given a grand total of 3 different speeches from these girls
"I love you like a brother"
"You are my best male friend, and i dont want to ruin our friendship"
"I just want to be friends, because i dont love you like that... but i do love you"Have you ever got "I don't want to kill you but I will if I have to"?
I think AA has gotten that one from me :P
Ale'ika Skirta wrote:i swear that it is A_A
i have been given a grand total of 3 different speeches from these girls
"I love you like a brother"
"You are my best male friend, and i dont want to ruin our friendship"
"I just want to be friends, because i dont love you like that... but i do love you"Have you ever got "I don't want to kill you but I will if I have to"?
no i have not
mainly because noneof them could
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Got my first gf at age 18.
At that time I felt desperate, 18 years old seemed to me like it was an age so late, without anyone serious, ever. People around me seemed to be all couples, yet myself I was still lonely... only wanted by the ugliest gal of my school, it seemed. I wasn't THAT desperate. At some point, my sis made me meet one of her friends... girl was cute. On a desperate day among desperate days, I tried charming her. Huge surprise, I didn't get rejected. Really, I was used to "no" as an answer.
That was over 15 years ago. Years have passed and a lot happened, but we're still together. She just had our third child not long ago. We're not in paradise, but we're happy. Perfection doesn't exist in anyone. Looking for that, you'll never find "The One".
Anyone can be happy and find "The One". Might be the one you're with, no matter how "unperfect" she is. It all depends on how you look at things.
Aw thats sweet Dave. I'm happy things worked out for you.
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."
Ditto. :) Glad things worked out nicely Dave. ( unlike me in 8 years time )
draco fett wrote:Ale'ika Skirta wrote:i swear that it is A_A
i have been given a grand total of 3 different speeches from these girls
"I love you like a brother"
"You are my best male friend, and i dont want to ruin our friendship"
"I just want to be friends, because i dont love you like that... but i do love you"Have you ever got "I don't want to kill you but I will if I have to"?
I think AA has gotten that one from me :P
You sure that wasn't I want to kill you but unfortunately I can't? :P
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cloneapart wrote:draco fett wrote:Have you ever got "I don't want to kill you but I will if I have to"?
I think AA has gotten that one from me :P
You sure that wasn't I want to kill you but unfortunately I can't? :P
ya, that sounds more like you, vod...lol
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cloneapart wrote:draco fett wrote:Have you ever got "I don't want to kill you but I will if I have to"?
I think AA has gotten that one from me :P
You sure that wasn't I want to kill you but unfortunately I can't? :P
If only I could find a way to jump through your computer and finish this argument... :P jk, I wouldn't kill you :P Was very funny today, I saw the guy that I used to like who had asked out my friend (if that makes sense) at Starbucks, and he was completely off since I looked completely different after having my hair done. I found it most amusing, but I really don't like him like that anymore, don't really have anyone on my mind right now.
Was very funny today, I saw the guy that I used to like who had asked out my friend (if that makes sense) at Starbucks, and he was completely off since I looked completely different after having my hair done. I found it most amusing, but I really don't like him like that anymore, don't really have anyone on my mind right now.
Ah the best revenge is living well.
"Suggestion: Electrocution works well. Evisceration and Decapitation are also effective, or um, so I've heard."
If only I could find a way to jump through your computer and finish this argument... :P jk, I wouldn't kill you :P Was very funny today, I saw the guy that I used to like who had asked out my friend (if that makes sense) at Starbucks, and he was completely off since I looked completely different after having my hair done. I found it most amusing, but I really don't like him like that anymore, don't really have anyone on my mind right now.
Was he in the Starbucks you were in or the one across the street? :P
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