Topic: Bf/Gf

dude, that pic freaked me out!

K, if anyone feels qualified to answer, what do you think nerdettes look for in a guy?

Edit: Um I meant the first picture Ph34r, you really don't look that bad :)

Here's for the guys who broke up with their girlfriends.

" Here's to the past, they can kiss my glass i hope she's happy with him." ;)

Back on subject.
I think what a girl looks for in a guy, is that their trustworthy. They don't want him to beat the osik out of them if they get married...AND just want them to love them.

PEACE OUT!
- KMV

I'm the most trusty guy since Honest Abe himself!

(and if anyone has any evidence that contadicts that claim then  that was a practice....)

Oh God! Ph34r that real picture of you looks almost exactly like a friend of mine I had in 6th grade! It's scary... How much you look alike! You could be identicle twins!!!

Have you ever been to Colorado? I could swear I've seen you somewhere.

Oh, and since I started the whole business, here I am: (and I can't seem to figure out the code to post pics here)
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v281/Mighty_Mule/halloween001.jpg

Now, really, most people tell me I'm intimidating. Where on earth do they get that idea?

Yeah I was gonna respond to that with the word "NORRIS" but noone woulda got the reference...

Hehehe...I have no idea. ;)

Cool pics.
That cowboy hat looks really nice!

I never go the whole BF/GF thing. I'd rather be single. Besides..kissing and all that is just gross. I'm going Boba Style...No BS..i mean, BF for me. ;)

You don't seem intimidating to me...

No, I have never been to Colorado.

You arent intimidating, im sorry to burst your bubble. lol

Haha, if you ever met me in person I bet you'd change your mind....

And why is that

I'm sorry, did I offend you by saying your not indimidating? If so, I apologize. Sorry, I'm terrible at words when I'm around-d'oh! Ne'er mind!

I think im the one who offended her.

*not offended*
(really)

If I weren't intimidating why do guys run like hell when they see me? Or am I just hanging around the wrong crowd?

Dunno

you don't look entirely comfortable cowgirled up in that pic.

I follow ya here...it is pretty easy to pick up a side chick, but i've found that most of the time they cause more harm than help. I've given a few chicks a chance at me, but it always seemed to turn upside down. (this wasn't my fault...i couldn't turn down 9 1/2s) Lemme tell ya, its fun while it lasts, then it hurts pretty bad when its all over.

Getting the right one....yes its hard.   But if it happens, you'll be glad you've been looking... fo sho.

                                                                          BB* :cool:

Oh, I was making that face on purpose. Outside of school those are the clothes I'll wear quite often to the barn or shows.
I look more comfortable here:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v281/Mighty_Mule/002_2.jpg

I guess my current pitfall in relationships is falling for unavaliable guys... not guys that are already taken but guys that aren't interested in a relationship any time soon.
Other than that, I've got finals so I can't get too wrapped up in other things.

It's good to see someone who sees the reality of it.

have you ever competed up in montana?

No, I don't have a trailer of my own. Farthest I've gone for a show is Granada, Colorado. (I'm around Denver)

I do intend to do more out-of-state shows when we get the trailer.

Yeah, i'd love to compete someday. But i highly doubt i ever will.
I knew some people who lived in Colorado...but i barely remember the place.

I know this is late in the conversation, but Ph34r I'm telling you know you'll be hot in a few years. Don't worry about it. I think all guys go through a gawky stage. I look at photos of my hubby when he was much younger (before I knew him) and I think cute but geeky. Now he's a hot geek. What can I say, I love brunettes.

SD_Chick, I've found most guys don't pick up on the subtlies of female behavour, so they go for the outrageous flirts because they know they're interest. Those of us who are shy or more subtle with our flirting tend to miss out because the guys don't notice the signs.

Believe me, my hubby has confirmed it. Sorry guys!

I think body language is the key. If you're interested, touch their arm in conversation etc. You'll get to know if they reciprocate or not. If they lean towards you and touch you back they like you. If they lean away or push you away they don't.

Signed the Love Doctor :P

Same with me.

Touching isn't always good, though. If someone touches my arm in a conversation, I don't care who they are, I'll pull back with a flinch. Some people just don't like being touched even if they like the person. My dad was that way, and so am I.

For me it depends what girl it is and the situation, in general.

Hi!!!!
I never looked for one but then one day during a visit in Cyprus I accidentely found one - nice isnt it??????

Find Cyprus!

Hey, welcome to the BFFC. That must have been nice, My brother's GF introdused me to MY GF, so yeah.

*Writes on hand*

Got any more pearls of wisdom for me?

Yes, never patronize a woman.  It's fine to open doors for her and such, but if it becomes a hassle to her, or you throw a fit when she forgets to wait for you and does it herself, that's no good.  And don't ambush listen, as in not really listening to her conversation but listening for specific points that you can use to change the subject to your own personal endeavors.  And don't keep her up late at night talking about all the things your friends did inside of video games that week.

Ok good I can do that...

She kept me up all night once...But that wasn't her fault I suppose.

In fact it was probably mine...
I always think too much....

I've got a girlfriend for over 3 months now, a new record for me lol.
I censured myself, cuz I was kinda drunk when the pic was taken :rolleyes:

Its funny how all the best pictures of people, always seem to contain the worst picture of you/me/whoever is talking about it.

Sorry for the double post, but I think it would be considered necessary to bump this thread with what I'm going to write really has nothing to do with the above post. Plus there's a high likeliehood that itr will be ignored if I just edit it in.

News Update...:(

I managed to get the courage to ask her.
She said the words everyman dreads: "Let's just be friends"

So instead of going out with her tomorrow, I am, instead going to be at home alone all day. If I had something to do it wouldn;t be there mocking me all day, just thinking about what would've happened under different circumstances. Like in a world where I wasn't so nice, or a world where I wasn'y quite as smart, or a world where I wasn;t as incompetant due to my intelligence (anybody who thinks being very intelligent and being incomeptant is impossible obviously isn't as intelligent as me.)

I said "the offer still stands if you change your mind" but I'm not expecting anything, its getting later and later in the day now.

I feel hungry when I've just eaten, cold when I'm in a heated room, sadr, angry, disappointed, betrayed,  every negative emotion flows through me like my blood, rushing up at every available second.

I....feel so hollow.

"Eloi Eloi lama Sabachthani.....?"

"Truly this Humorbot5 was forsaken by god."

Not to be mean, not to be insenitive, but the best way to deal is just get over it. Everyone knows the smart kids get jipped until later in life, so tough it out.

And after my experiences, its really not that bad to not have a g/f. Ya my g/f was great, she made me smile, I liked to make her laugh... but theres always something that makes it ok to be single. My friends are great, so I hang out with them a load more and I have a lot of fun. I also have more money to do with what I like... instead of spending it on somebody else.

Oh... sorry about that I guess. Ummmmmmm, ya so just go with the flow, more seas in the fish or whatever.

Well its easy to get over the first 3 times....But I've asked out several people in my life and its not like they've all been "Out of my league" or anything.
Sure a couple were, but this time she certainly wasn't. The one person who knew about it other than me seemed to think that it would be a great idea to ask her out.

The problem is, you spend all this time becoming friends with them, then asking them out puts a wedge in....

Besides this was all earlier today, I have had little time to get over it.... Maybe tomorrow.

Well, i'm single again. I could not tell if my GF was lying, or telling the truth to me. So I broke up with her. Not a pleasent stage in my life.

This is errie. I've been sitting on my arse waiting to be asked out and now I'm almost 20. Yeah, smart chicks come up second place. When people ask me why I haven't asked a guy out I tell them the following:
The ONE time I got rather blunt with my feelings and asked someone out, he turned me down for a 43- year old woman. That's right folks... a 21 year-old guy turned me down for a woman who's more than twice his age. If I were a drinker I would have got stoned that night.
So... I basically have no self-esteem either. I've got another person on my mind now but I can't believe he's still attached to his biotch of an ex girlfriend. I should give him a note that says to call me when he's ready to date a WOMAN and not a girl... but of course I wouldn't do that because I don't have the nerve.

What kind of guy would do that? he probably wants her for her money. Someone will find you and have to get alot of courage to ask you out, I bet that someones doin that right know. Hes probably just waiting for the right momement you ask the most beutiful girl in his life out.

Honestly sometimes love is so blind. I was single for a long time, believe me you're better off on your own then in a bad relationship.

I had a friend that had a boyfriend that beat her (I never ever thought she'd tolerate that sort of behaviour). It took her to be hospitalised before she left him. Thankfully she's engaged to a lovely guy now. I used to work with him so I know she's found a gem.

In terms of asking people out, my ratio of answers is 11:0

Needless to say my Self Esteem on that front died ages ago....

I here that I haven't had a date in 3 years.  Rejection is my friend.

Rejection will not be my friend until they change its meaning to something more pleasant.

Rejection is more like a bad smell, which you can never seem to get rid of.

Or maybe rejection is like a skin disease which slowly burns away at you until there is nothing left....

I am a car salesman I get told no all day long if you let it get to you then after about tn in the morning you had better pack it up because your done.  If you view it as you friend then it just builds you up for when they actually say yes.

So far I'm at 1:0... working up to your stats.
Wanna trade notes?

My ratio, is 0:1. The only girl I have ever asked out, said yes, but now I broke up with her, so yeah.

My ratio is about 2 yes and 45 no my pride may be dented but never broken.

Well, it would also depend on where those 2 were situated....

If my ratio was 10:1 and the 1 had been right at the beginning, then I would be more likely to be able to use that as a rock to make me feel better when someone says no....

And of course if it was 10:1  with the 1 at the end, I'd have a girlfriend right now.... :(

The two were spread around none at the start and none right now.  I moved around to much 14 different states and 18 differet schools, not to mention summer travel add 15 more states to the total for that.

The top-side of moving to new schools, is you get to make a brand new start every time.

I intend to move school at the end of this year.

Of course I couldn't explain this in much detail as your schooling system is entirely different.