Topic: Bf/Gf

What if she says no?

I go movies by myself?

(Also Off-Topic a little, Arc-Fett did you get my PM about your Wiki page?)

Ask her out, darn it all.
I've been sitting here for 19 years and I've never been asked out. Never. Ever. Apparently I'm intimidating.
If some guy had actually got some guts and asked me I would have danced in the streets. Still will if it happens!
Girls are shy too, ya know. The fact that she's not flirting her head off doesn't mean she doesn't like you. I'm really shy with my feelings and tend to look like an idiot whenever I look up from my books and notice a guy.
PS. I went to the last movie by myself. It wasn't that bad.

then you dont have to go, and yes, i got it thanks.

I usually go to movies by myself. I don't see why not.

And, yes, some of us are very shy. If I liked a guy I doubt I'd be able to show it.

Yeah me too if my family does not like the movie, which they regret later because I have good taste in movies. I have tried flirting but with me it does not work because they think I am not flirting.

i jsut got the note ready for tommorow.... :o

Good! I hope she says yes.

Flirting is so awkward. I look like an idiot or I come off as some bada$$ chick.
I give up on flirting.

To this day I don't understand when I'm flirting and when I'm not...

Me neither... It confuses me.

I think a girl here should define "flirt"

well i just putted the note in there after school shes gonna reply tomorrow....

In where? Her Locker? or what?

Good Luck anyway

i do not want to spam thats why i made this longer i putted in her locker

I'm not really sure what flirting is either.. So I can't help you there.

BAH!
The stupidity of it all.

I can't ask anyone I know personally cos they might laugh at me...

I consider that to be spam more so than just giving a short answer. If that is truly all you have to say, then just say it. You should give longer answers when you can, though.

you could tell us how you got it into her locker, but saying "I do not wat to spam that why I mad this longer" It is still considered spam, because it has no meaning to it. It dose not realte to the subject, or anything else.

You boys out there are going to love this... The definition of FLIRTING!!!
Flirting: to show superficial or casual interest through gestures, body language, or words. Just to tell you I found this in a dictionary and made it easier to understand.

The latest thing in my life is that tommorow one of my friends (This is something that I just found out) is going to ask (for me) my crush out. I am nervous. I have a bad fear of rejection. More than needles, the doctor, and black widows in the toilet.

Yeah. I got burned twice this year with crushes. One turned out to be a mamma's boy (at the moment he's dating a 43 year old woman, he's 21!!!)
and the other I think just wants to be friends.
It's really hard. I feel so lonely sometimes. I also feel like a social lurch.

That sucks. I had a crush on a gril, and she was like... I just want to be friends... They she got a boyfriend, and it was like a huge slap in the face.

Well today I found out he does not like me. So, yeah I am still Single...
Depressing much.

.... That sucks, It dose not feel very nice when you like someone, they you find out that they dont like you... It sucks.......

I know how you feel, Prancer.
That's been my current state of affairs for a year now- having crushes and just watching them go by.

For those who have seen my moviie, concerning this topic.

Nick Smith the long haired goon in my first movie. (Yes thats right, the chubby one who laughs) asked out a girl yesterday and today SHE SAID YES!!!

Well. If he can get a girlfriend I don't think any of us should "take up golf" at this point....

Well, maybe I should take up golf...I suck at it. But not as much as getting a date/boyfriend. Here is my stats: 1 to 10000000000000000 I get a boyfriend. The funny thing is that I am not ugly and I am not dumb(report card proves that) and I am VERY patient. Plus I almost never get mad. You have to REALLY work to make me get mad. I just don't understand boys... (scratches head and looks for "Dating for Dummies" hand book)

I don't think I look that bad and I am not stupid either, so I'm not sure what the holdup is. PM me if you wanna e-mail/IM and whine about our single situations, Prancer.

I'm still wondering whether or not to ask out that girl.

I wonder if my good looks will make up for my "nerdiness" (not my words)

Im single...always have been. All my friends have BFs, but im the odd one out. Oh well...at least i can flirt with anyone i want! :)

Yeah that is a good thing about being single.

Whether I'm going out with said person or not, I still feel jealous as hell when she's talkign to any boy.

Its probably not healthy

those of you who've read the first few pages of this post know i....had a GF....
Well, X-that....it looks like another broken and lonely heart for Christmas. Lets hope the single world is accepting of me....

                                                                Beskaryc Beroya :(

Hey, Beskaryc.... it happens. I've been single for 19 years of holidays, including the (dum-dum-dum) PARAMOUNT of "ha ha you're a single moron" holidays... Valentine's day. (aka Single Awareness Day)
It ain't that bad. You can party all you want with ANYONE you want and not have to worry about the other half chewing you out the next day.
But just the same, sorry about the break-up.

so far i dont need a gf, i need 1 night stands. but thats just me. lol

Thanx SD-chick...my options are now open and i've met quite a few other chicks that could take my X's place. For now, i need a vacation from the GF/BF life. But ya never know...so here's to the next heartbreak...hehe (guzzles down anotha)

                                            :cool: Beskaryc Beroya :cool:

I've had a girlfriend before.....for approximately 5 minutes. I'm friggin' single & friggin' hate it. I'm smart, in the honors class, and I have a great sense of humor (as many BFFC members can vouch) and I guess I look okay...I definitely look better than the scores of guys with gfs at my school. Must be because they're in the "in" crowd. I friggin' hate clickes.

guys out there who dont have a gf, dont fret because they're A LOT of work and pain. I dont have one and Im happy, I could get one if i tried hard but I dont wont more stress in my life. ya see Ph34r, Im sure your happier without a girl, because at first puppy love is sweet and great but when you get older theres A LOT more work. I KNOW from my dad for SURE. ;)

TW

oh getting a gf is easy alright. finding the right person.....thats a different thing.

Alright, I guess I'll join the conversation....

No, don't have a boyfriend.  Never really have, there was one friend of mine that asked me out, but I didn't 'feel the same way,' and another friend who, looking back at it now, was really kinda perfect for me, and I think he was trying to tell me that, but naive me didn't understand what was going on.  And now he's probably in the Navy....and don't get me started on Steve....ugghh.  Let's just say, another guy that was probably perfect for me and it just fizzled out.

Other than that, I've never really had the longing to have a boyfriend.  I mean, yeah every once in awhile I'll feel lonely, wish I had someone who would, I don't know, understand me and yet be everything I'm not, but I really don't get why other girls get so, 'I need a guy.'  I guess it's my independent nature, but I honestly can't understand it.

Alright, enough of this, it's kinda depressing....

yeah it is a bit depressing and also i wana be a bail enforcement agent/bounty hunter and so who would wana go out or marry someone like that? but i dont care i value my career more. lifes too short not to do what you like, so too bad. but a gf would be nice.

Yeah right! It's impossible to get a gf! I only had one for 5 minutes & it took me forever for her to go out with me!Oh...........my heart aches.......Megan.....Megan come back...

oh its because like 5 girls have said they liked me before, but i didnt like em back, and what i meant was that i couldve gone out with them just to say i've had a gf but i didnt because i dont think its fair to them just going out with them for the sake of it. out of curiousity can you say why its hard for you to get a gf? im just curious and also maybe someone here can help.

I have a nose the size of New Hampshire. Oh, & I'm a friggin' genius. girls just don't dig nerds 'round here. Or maybe its because I like comic books & Star Wars? If that's the case, I'm just doomed to eternal lonliness. No girl is worth giving up SW and comic books. NO GIRL.

Oh, gimme a break. Souds like you've got some lame-o chicks around there. I wouldn't mind a nerd at all- he'd just remind me of my brothers. Or myself. :O

so i have some zits on my left cheek. but anyways i think you'll eventually find someone. if not, then just enjoy life. its too short not to be enjoyed. of course, how can we say life is short if we're never gonna experience anything longer?

My face now resembles a beet set on fire.

lol

He he. Why not be brave and post a picture? :D

my advice to anyone that is interested in meeting members of the opposite sex, get a job that puts you in a high profile/center of attention position.  i'm a DJ, i have a microphone and music, i am the person that makes the party happen.  without me you have a bunch of people standing around mumbling, soon to disperse.  as the center of attention, you are desirable to pretty much everyone.  i'll admit that i don't meet many people that i would get serious with, but occassionally i'll find someone that i can tolerate for more than 10 minutes.

Here I am:

Just Joking: In all seriousness, this is me: